Many families are destroyed for various reasons. Feelings pass, fatigue accumulates, many grievances and claims arise, and people understand that it is better for them to divorce.
Divorce – the procedure is quite long and painful. Both partners experience huge psychological stress. And if the one who fits for divorce, as a rule, has a “reserve airfield” in the form of a new partner, then the person from whom he often flows into long and long depression, from which to get out alone is very, very difficult.
How to soften it?
One of the options for solving this issue is the appeal to the psychologist. Of course, it is better not to reach the stage of the divorce and just go through a course of family trainings that will identify the problem and help to solve it without reaching the stage described above.
And what to do if you save a marriage is simply not possible? Again, contact a competent and proven specialist. In general, the help of a psychologist in the divorce of spouses is often invaluable. Firstly, it helps to survive the state of depression. Find the opportunity to maintain normal social relations with a former partner. Do not close in your condition, but look for communication with other people. And just understand that after the divorce life continues. That she did not become worse, and you have not ceased to be an interesting person for those who surround you.
What result is worth waiting?
Be prepared for the fact that the problem is not to solve in five to ten sessions. As a rule, you have to work with a psychologist for a very long time. But if you really want to live a full -fledged life and not suffer at the sight of the former half, then the work attached at first will be fruit. Try not to focus on bad situations and memories. Change the work or make repairs in the house. Generally try to take yourself. In addition to a psychologist, communication is useful with friends and friends.
And after a while you will understand that the divorce you have passed is not pleasant, but not fatal. The life of any person consists of light and dark stripes. Try to go out into a light strip, and everything in your life will become good.